Mayhem

A little everyday drama from my house to yours...

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Silent Sunday

Atlantic Ocean

If I could live anywhere, I would live where I could see THIS out my windows......


'til next time

me

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Happy Happy Weekend!

I am so enjoying the last couple of weekends! Soccer is over outdoor and basketball has not started yet. Brenna's plays her indoor games on Friday's so the last 2 weekends have been ours to do with as we please. It has been a much needed break.

While our weeks are just crazy with volleyball, soccer practice, dance and just life with 6 kids the weekends have been little islands of calm. I sure I will be bored soon and itching to get back to it but for now......bliss!

'til next time

me

*real post coming soon, I promise.

Friday, November 13, 2009

Quick Update

Oooops it's 11:37 p.m. so I better get on here quick!

Are you sick of me yet? This has been and interesting experience so far. Trying to think of something everyday to post. I am having fun though.

Today the kids were off of school so we watched G.I. Joe and went up to the big kids conferences.

Later I went to the Salvation Army and scored some great stuff for the babies and even some snow pants.

After was Brenna's weekly Friday night soccer game, got love it! Tomorrow we are off to find Brenna some boots and taking Kieran to a birthday party.

Sorry for the pathetic update but I got it in right under the wire!

'til next time

me!

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Random Thoughts


Let me share something with you. We are T.V. people. There I said it. We have a 2 flat screens, one in my bedroom and one in the family room, Brenna, Kieran and Alainna have t.v.'s in their rooms (Ki and Alainna share). Griffen used to have a t.v. in his room but it now lives in the rec. room of the basement, but he still has mostly full control of it.

We recently switched from Charter to U-verse and I pretty much live off of my DVR. Really I do, it's sort of sad. While I have imposed some pretty good limits on T.V. watching a lot of our evenings are planned around what we watch.

The rules are no video games on weekdays, and no T.V. until 1 hour before bedtime on weekdays, on weekends the rules are much more lax. This works out pretty well for us, but some days I find myself parked on my butt sitting in front of the t.v. instead of accomplishing anything.

I find myself thinking about what I am going to watch next or in what order. A lot of our evening conversations revolve around t.v. shows and you can find us sitting on the couch vegging out to some GLEE or SYTYCD or Grey's or Private Practice or I guess you probably get my point.

We also pay close to $200.00 per month for the U-verse. This is for the service and for high-speed internet. And we don't even have a premium package! We also have Net*flix for our movie pleasure and maybe we even run to the Red*box every once in a while.

Sometimes I dream of just turning it ALL off. Ok, ok, I am not saying like take our t.v.'s and throw them away. Brian would probably divorce me if I tried to get rid of his "baby"(flat screen). And I like movies WAY too much.

But when I think about it this way, I am paying some company almost $200.00 a month to help me sit my ass on the couch and entertain me. Instead of just entertaining myself, hanging out with the kids, cooking more, playing games, dancing to the ipod, well we do the last one so much it's almost embarrassing but you get the idea.

Also we are American's! And Americans! have cable and watch t.v. and really who wants to go against the status quo? We do that a lot already and do I really want another raised eyebrow? And who is this person thinking these thoughts? 'Cuz I hardly recognize her! Paging Jillienne, paging Jillienne, could you please get back in line!

Is bonding over television really bonding? Can I break the addiction? Do I really want too? What are your thoughts?

'til next time


Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Wordless Wednesday


Gotta love those boys......

'til next time
me

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

"How we live our days, is how we live our life." Frances Chan


This quote is making it's way around Facebook right now. I had a post all planned out about having Alainna home sick again and all of the crazy things that happened to us (me) yesterday but I just keep coming back to this.

"How we live our days, is how we live our life." Hmmmm.....

It's interesting how you can read things like this and all of a sudden you just "get it". It's interesting though how many times over the years I have just "gotten it".

That wonderful epiphany where I am on top of the world, moving full speed ahead as Wonder Woman, blissfully ignoring the fact that the dishes are piling up, and the laundry is overflowing. Living in the moment with the kids, cuddling on the couch with my man, finding ways to, even small ones, make a difference.

And then the teen-ager runs out of clean pants and the babies cups are sitting in the sink with curdled milk. The diva can't find her other tap shoe and if I step on another one of the boys Legos I will go through the roof! BAM!!!! Reality sets in.

There has to be a balance. Wouldn't it be nice if there was a little bottle (like in Alice in Wonderland) that was marked BALANCE. Balance between the work and the play. Or how about a bottle marked WISDOM. The wisdom to know when it's time to stop what you are doing and have that conversation with the Teen-ager or listen to the Boy try to crack you up with his jokes. To stop doing dishes and cuddle with the baby (either or both you pick). And when it's ok to say wait, at this moment it's time for me.

In the end this is so true "How we live our days, is how we live our life." I just hope that the scales tip in my favor because all we can do is try to do the best we can.

'til next time
me




Monday, November 9, 2009

Menu Plan Monday

I need some feedback. Do you all like the menu plan and the recipes? Or do you prefer just the family updates and insights into our small dramas?

I am having a hard time deciding which way I want to go. With the other blog being focused on savings and being more frugal I think maybe that I should have all the recipes and such over there.

What do you think?

In the meantime, this week's mealplan

Breakfast: cereal and bagels

Lunches: Sandwiches, mac and cheese, cheese and crackers and leftovers

Dinners:

Monday: Sweet and Sour Chicken

Tuesday: Pot roast with all the fixin's

Wednesday: Pancakes and Bacon

Thursday: Taco-roni (still haven't made this

Friday: PIZZA!!

Saturday: Grilled Ham and Cheese Sandwiches w/ Chicken Noodle Soup (from a can)

Sunday: Left-overs!

'til next time
me